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How do I keep up my enthusiasm?

It's not unusual to be excited about something at the beginning. This is where I suspect most people have little problem. The issue is whether they do something about it initially and sustain that enthusiasm.

Why is it so difficult?

While people are excited, very few do anything about it. They either don't want to commit -- they rather do something else, usually something they are familiar with -- or they don't know how where to start. The former requires faith and the latter requires legwork.

To commit is to believe that something will work out. If they don't believe it themselves then why would they commit? Hence the problem. And doing legwork is hard work. There's the roadblock of knowing who to talk to, where to go, the upfront cost, etc. There is resistance, and frankly, too many people stop and reconsider when they feel friction.

It doesn't have to be that way.

The harsh reality is to sustain something is to not try to gather enthusiasm from what's before you necessarily -- who would be enthusiastic about long hours and enduring rejections? -- but to gather enthusiasm from the goal itself.

If the goal is truly as great as you think it is, enthusiasm would continue, and perhaps also tweaking a little bit the way you see the world to help you get past the obstacles.

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